If you really want to be in shape,you'll keep going.Think about how much that emans to you,if it doesnt mean all that much,then stop going as often.If its a chore,do something else.
(2)Do you go cos you think you SHOULD?
Gay men are SUPPOSED to go to gym,right?We have to be good at everything,right?Wrong.I know alot of gay men who say "I SHOULD join the gym" only because its peer pressure that we have to look perfect all the time and that its a socially acceptable thing to do,or that if you dont,youre a loser.If you think you are there just because you feel you SHOULD,then you would get better exercise just running with your dog.
Thirdly,I love going to the gym alone and having some great,inspirational music on my ipod,something different each time.I go to get away from ppl and the stresses of the day.If I do talk to anyone there,great,but Im there to exercise my body not my jaw.
If you cant enjoy it alone,again,think about whether its something you realy ought to be spending so much time doing.
Ive not been for a few months,because,after going every second day for three years,I wanted a break,and to spend my tiem diffferently,expeiencing the joy of coming home from work......and staying there!I know that I will go back soon as the weather warms up,but I dont berate myself for not going.I do it for me,on my terms.
This is the second time Ive had to give you a stern talking to, young lady,and be reminded,youre never too big for a smack.
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(1)How badly do you want it?
If you really want to be in shape,you'll keep going.Think about how much that emans to you,if it doesnt mean all that much,then stop going as often.If its a chore,do something else.
(2)Do you go cos you think you SHOULD?
Gay men are SUPPOSED to go to gym,right?We have to be good at everything,right?Wrong.I know alot of gay men who say "I SHOULD join the gym" only because its peer pressure that we have to look perfect all the time and that its a socially acceptable thing to do,or that if you dont,youre a loser.If you think you are there just because you feel you SHOULD,then you would get better exercise just running with your dog.
Thirdly,I love going to the gym alone and having some great,inspirational music on my ipod,something different each time.I go to get away from ppl and the stresses of the day.If I do talk to anyone there,great,but Im there to exercise my body not my jaw.
If you cant enjoy it alone,again,think about whether its something you realy ought to be spending so much time doing.
Ive not been for a few months,because,after going every second day for three years,I wanted a break,and to spend my tiem diffferently,expeiencing the joy of coming home from work......and staying there!I know that I will go back soon as the weather warms up,but I dont berate myself for not going.I do it for me,on my terms.
This is the second time Ive had to give you a stern talking to, young lady,and be reminded,youre never too big for a smack.