I've been in two blockbuster longterm relationships. but since - I have not been able to find someone that can even get past basic dating. Joe and I romanced - and then moved all over together and I was his nurse/caregiver as he transitioned - we were together 4 years - then a year later i met Jon - with whom I was with for 11 years. and we found and had real love - until after 11 years he wanted a younger model. Since that breakup (2004) I haven't had very good luck with men. First the insincere sex addict I moved to SF for after a long distance relationship - then two or three guys since I've dated for a few weeks and for any myriad of reasons - they don't get even into serious dating. (sigh)