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All they meant to you? ALL? Even a good lay!?
Sorry to be flippant. I so often feel exactly the same way.
Sorry to be flippant. I so often feel exactly the same way.
oh no - i still love cock a great deal. but as far as men are concerned - I'm through.
{raises glass of wine and toasts in agreement}
but umm... yay for cock still...
but umm... yay for cock still...
My good friend Wyn is wont to say, "Mens is mens." Inclined to agree with her, but you know, I'm not quite ready to give up on the mens.
Don't give up on men. Just give up the men that make you want to give up on me. A year and a half ago, I was ready to give up on men. Two days later, I met 77. I always used to scoff and John and Yoko Ono Lennon when they would say that they had found in one another the missing half of their own souls. Now I know what they mean.
Just give up the men that make you want to give up on me.
A TYPO???? :Þ
Well that's good. Perhaps you'll be able to see them for what they mean to/as/in themselves.
oh really????
who was giving me advice only 15 days ago on men and healing a broken heart????
What brought this feeling up? need someone to listen? I'll listen if you need an objective ear.
who was giving me advice only 15 days ago on men and healing a broken heart????
What brought this feeling up? need someone to listen? I'll listen if you need an objective ear.
no - its just a general feeling. I'm not down... swearing off men is actually pretty liberating! I'm just tired of putting myself out there - thats all. Im done! over! (dramatic music que) Men are pigs!
I must of missed a post, but too bad that something must of happened that made you say that... I felt the same way after a couple of men trampled on my heart... So, I hope someday I will be happy again with someone special... *sigh*
*HUGS* to you!!!!
*HUGS* to you!!!!
there is no trampling going on. just ambivalence.
You are gaurenteed to find someone within a month now. It always happens when you aren't looking. :-p
Misanthropy is the best tonic and armour.
Men are pigs!
Men are dogs!
Men are filth!
If only they didn't come with penises,...and furry, robust chests...and strong arms to hold you...and kissable faces....and squeezable buns...and laughing, twinkling eyes...and deep, rumbly voices.
Take away all that, and I could do without men completely!
Men are dogs!
Men are filth!
If only they didn't come with penises,...and furry, robust chests...and strong arms to hold you...and kissable faces....and squeezable buns...and laughing, twinkling eyes...and deep, rumbly voices.
Take away all that, and I could do without men completely!
charlie brown style AUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGH inserted here.
Men are pigs. They are vile, disgusting, creatures of habit. They continually consider only themselves, and never expect anything above their self-imposed limitations. Constantly drowning themselves in narcissistic attitudes, men are nothing more than a mirror-hungry hip-thrusting collection of belly, butt, and penis, seeking approval for their less-than-perfect, selfish accomplishments.
That being said, I am proud to be one. Go me!
I was going to get philosophical and all artsy next, but I had a brain fart, and it all flew out the left ear. Oh, well.....
That being said, I am proud to be one. Go me!
I was going to get philosophical and all artsy next, but I had a brain fart, and it all flew out the left ear. Oh, well.....
Hey! You stole that from my LJ! I said that last week!
I mean the swearing off men part in the main post. Gawd, I don't want the wrong guy's wrath.
Men are evil.
Men are evil.
I'm through with men - and all they meant to me. he says with his best over the shoulder 'come hither' icon.
Uh huh. Yeah. It would be more convincing if you said you were going to give women a try.
Uh huh. Yeah. It would be more convincing if you said you were going to give women a try.
it's actually a quote from Love!Valour!Compassion! by Terrence McNally - it's one of Buzz's dramatic queen lines. :)
Sorry you have had a bad experience. Wish I could help.
However, "men are pigs" ?
Kent (me) not a pig. I eat like one but... well, don't generalize muffin. We are not all like the asses that rise to the surface.
However, "men are pigs" ?
Kent (me) not a pig. I eat like one but... well, don't generalize muffin. We are not all like the asses that rise to the surface.
it isn't that I've had a hard time - is that I'm over putting myself out there over and over - just to get told "you have a heart the size of texas... but...." so I'm done with it for a while....
Buddy, fairytales are fairytales. Reality is not material for the children's books we grew up with. Prince Charming was fun to read about but I honestly don't know of one single happy monogamous gay relationship. Perhaps our expectations need to be revisited....
this is about me expecting nothing. actually.
I don't know whether I'm even looking for a happy monogamous gay relationship. I just know that I'm done with running after men for a while.
its more of a confident statement than a question. I am through with men - and all they meant to me! (snap!)
I don't know whether I'm even looking for a happy monogamous gay relationship. I just know that I'm done with running after men for a while.
its more of a confident statement than a question. I am through with men - and all they meant to me! (snap!)
either would suit me fine.
sounds like a very freeing statement... good luck with wherever it leads you.
thanks - Many saw it as a "wtf" statement - and it really was more declaritive and simply - how things are.
I am simply done trying to figure it out. and have any of this make sense.
I am simply done trying to figure it out. and have any of this make sense.
What I'm doing seems to be working well: I'm slowly building up a tolerance to the mens so one day I can try to be amongst their kind again.
You need to find your weeza - hit her and we'll sell tickets.
Giving up on men is a good thing for a while. I'm kinda doing that, and only using them as means to my own ends. That way I can still get some "hot dog and buns" but I don't expect anyone to be anything like genteel or to call me again after.
Giving up on men is a good thing for a while. I'm kinda doing that, and only using them as means to my own ends. That way I can still get some "hot dog and buns" but I don't expect anyone to be anything like genteel or to call me again after.
LOL...I read several of the comments and I'm kind of giggling. IF I ever get to the other side, I have to admit, I have no desire to even indulge. How sad is that?
I'll be happy with a close circle of friends, an active life, and just growing old.
All people are overrated...it's not just the men, honey.
I'll be happy with a close circle of friends, an active life, and just growing old.
All people are overrated...it's not just the men, honey.
Trust me, based on what little I know about you, I've got you figured for at least 5 more trips on the Love RollerCoaster before you finally realize that you reall more in love with the idea/concept of being "In Love" than the actual long term excericise of actually being in love.
Real love may not bear any resemblance to your notions of romance, shared baths by candlelight, romantic dinners and flowers. Real love may have a lot more to do with making sure that the oil in their car is changed on schedule, making sure they have clean underwear for their next business trip, and making sure they remember their Mom and Dad's anniversary, than two guys in rented tuxedos having a commitment ceremony and a honeymoon cruise in the Medierranian.
Thus endeth the sermon.
Real love may not bear any resemblance to your notions of romance, shared baths by candlelight, romantic dinners and flowers. Real love may have a lot more to do with making sure that the oil in their car is changed on schedule, making sure they have clean underwear for their next business trip, and making sure they remember their Mom and Dad's anniversary, than two guys in rented tuxedos having a commitment ceremony and a honeymoon cruise in the Medierranian.
Thus endeth the sermon.
Someone who groks the difference between love and limerance. (SWOON)
:P
:P
*drily* sips coffee
Cool-discarding one's perceptions usually helps see things as they are, which leads to better responses and greater enjoyment.
Poptart?
Cool-discarding one's perceptions usually helps see things as they are, which leads to better responses and greater enjoyment.
Poptart?
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